"OrphansInRussia.org exists to serve the interests of orphans all accross Russia."
Understanding what it means to be an orphan in Russia is hard to grasp at first. When I first came to Russia to work with orphans, I just felt sorry that they had to live under such poor conditions in overcrowded orphanages. However, the more familiar I became with the hardships Russian orphans face, the more I realized the scope of the problem.
Many orphans in Russia today exibit severe emotional disorders such as Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) to an extent that is unheard of in other countries. Thousands of children in Russia are abandoned every year, and from the day they are born they are subject to levels of neglect that negatively affect their development.
Upon "graduating" from Russian orphanages between the ages of 16 and 18, only 10-20% of orphans "survive" the next two years. the rest end up addicted to drugs, involved in prostitution, arrested and put in jail, or committing suicide.
I have come to realize that any plan to help Russian orphans must include the whole family.
Why is the number of Russian orphans still growing every year?
Over the last century, we have seen a breakdown of the family unit in Russia. It is difficult to say exactly how and when this problem began; we simply see the results of this absence of family values. The problem was caused in part by the great number of Russian men that died during 20th century wars leaving many families fatherless. Following this, the fall of communism brought freedom to the Russian people; however, it also brought a freedom from all the old moral restraints, resulting in a rejection of any standard of moral value. Since that time alcoholism and drug addiction have become the hallmark of many Russian people. Today, in the typical Russian family, one or both parents are severely alcoholic, and the father is often absent altogether. As a result, more and more children are growing up in orphanages or on the streets making Russian children an extremely at-risk group. In recent years this problem has become so acute that the government has decided to intervene and call 2008 “The Year of the Family.”
(To Be Continued...)
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I was adopted from Russia
At the age of 4, I was lucky and was adopted. By reading this, I feel sick to my stomcah, as wellas more grateful than ever to be able to be sitting here today in peace doing my homeowork. I am 18 now.
I was adopted too
who are u
What a Touching story
I've looked at this story for homework, I have to say, I almost cried... These people that live in those conditions might not ever realise how much they had to fight just to be wherever they are now which is most likely in some darned asylum of a place with barely anything.
RAD and Russian Orphans
I am a college student doing a research ppaper on RAD. I first found about RAD when I had a child in my preschool class who may have had it. I would be very interested to hear your stories. It is my desire t help families and childern durring diificult situations.
prayer and support
We saw you thru an AGAPE email. we are praying for u and agape missions and will donate too. use a camera often and share much. 2 TIM 1. 7 for the Lord has not given us a spirit of fear..but a spirit of power. LOVE. and a sound mind.
I have adopted 2 older sisters from Russia
After 5 years living in US they are 11 and 16. We have very mixed and unique experience raising these children. It is very difficult - close to impossible - to change the mentality and psychology of a child from an institution. We feel sorry for what their parents done to them and trying to make their future brighter than they would have had back in their 'mother land'.
You are lucky indeed. I am
You are lucky indeed. I am proud of your parents - tell them that ! They are wonderful people turning unfortunate life into a happy young person. You are going to be a successful person in life, keep it going, your parents are awesome !
I was adpted from Russia in 2000
I was adopted when i was 7 by a loving family. But things did not work out and i ended up in foster care. I am now 18 years old and still deal with severe RAD. Life is really difficult for me. I miss my brothers in Russia and wish I knew what my mom looked like.
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